If someone had told him, if he had had a full petrol, would this have happened to him, if someone had come and saved you from an impending accident, then you don’t blame him, you thank him for it. Thank you brother, you saved my life, so I am doing what I am saying to save your life. A person dies in anxiety and depression. If something like this happened, I would die first. People who don’t know how to deal with these things die. The exam is sitting now, he is also afraid, the person giving the interview is also afraid, what is the fear of failure, this fear is good, this fear will force them to study, this fear will force them. Come on You are sitting in one place right now, which place is it, is it home, is it any place, is it four-walled, why did you build four walls, why did you build a house? Someone told me that why is there a need to build a house? The need to build a house is due to the fact that if we live in the open air, we will feel wind, in winter we will feel very cold, and in summer we will feel very hot, and there will be rain and water and it Will come upon us. Animals will also come and attack us and eat us. Assume that a person like me tells you to build a house, then you will rise up and say to me, you are doing what you are doing, you are doing that, you are wrong, I am wrong. No, my brother, build a house, how to build a house, which house to build, build a house that can protect you, that can save you, I spent three years building a shelter for myself. It is that it has to be solved, it is not that there are no problems in my life. I shared two stories of my life yesterday, these two stories of Abu and Ammi. You have to listen first. First you have to watch the whole video. You will understand things, just watch the video and then you start calling on WhatsApp, start messaging, bro, no one’s time is free, try to understand for someone, I know that you are forced. Yes, I know, I am forced, I have only so much time, either I give it to someone for free and starve myself, or I use this time to spend my money. Fulfill it. Every human being is forced. Every human being is forced in his own place. I will listen to the first story of my father. My father, who was very fond of reading since childhood. He was educated, but my father was very fond of reading, and grandfather Abu was afraid that if this person was educated, he would not know what he would do, he would rebel against the family, he would do this, he would do that. They never praised them for their studies. My aunt used to beat them when they went to school. Why do you go to school? My father studied hard until matriculation. Did matriculation and then later, my father was a very intelligent person. He had a good education. He also had a degree. Here, whoever has it more is crazy, no, he is not crazy. Many people say to me that if people in our family have thoughts, then everyone is crazy. No, I am not crazy. And most of the people in my family who think about things are not crazy people, they are wise people who know the difference between good and bad. Took it out, put it on, this can be done by even bigger creatures. Allah has given man a thought, based on that thought, a person becomes a human being. My father was a very intelligent person. Abu was because I was very young when I was very attached to him. I had three older sisters, then a brother and then me and then a younger brother who was older than me. He didn’t listen to my father very often. Because he was the elder of my mother and my eldest sister was the darling of my father. She was my father’s darling. She believed in everything my father said. When she was a child, she went to school. My father was a headmaster in a school. So my father used to come from school and my sister would pick out slippers and clothes for them. So it is very much for a father that he loves them very much because of this my father is very attached to my sister because when my sister used to press his legs every day before going to bed oil on his head. Because of this, my father had many tests. In the morning, we used to say that when we had summer vacations, he never sat at home during summer vacations. They say the same thing. I wanted to ask, what is that worry? Does a six-year-old child know what trouble is? Does he know what trouble is? Everything was given to us by Allah. But still my father, who was working hard, never thought that my brother, I have a big name in the village, but despite this, I am in business. I used to do it too. Sometimes my father used to set up a stall, used to buy a big truck and send it here and there. I used to buy some things from there and he and I used to sit all day and sell them. They used to come today, they were ours, they didn’t worry about anything and there was a lot of good will in their area, what happened now because my sister was sick since childhood, she got sick one day suddenly. While sitting, blood came out of my sister’s nose and she died. We didn’t know what had happened to her. Some people said it was black magic. He did it, but nothing could be done. Now my father was very attached to him, so he could not even bear this news. He was also not good with them and may Allah Almighty forgive grandfather Abu later. He also thought that if this was read, I don’t know what will happen. That is why he used to tell him about everything because Abu All these studies were stolen from them, so the mentality of a person becomes different. Such a person becomes very sensitive. It is a fact that they became very sensitive in these matters. When I remember, now everything becomes clear to me. They couldn’t digest it. They didn’t sleep all night. They kept crying. A normal person gets upset when someone dies. It’s a natural process. So they cried a lot, they were more worried. He stopped going to school, he stayed at home, he cried all day, he didn’t change his clothes, he didn’t bathe. Otherwise, he was used to shaving every day, only trouble, trouble and trouble. Now in six months, he put himself in various diseases. Sometimes there was pain here, sometimes there was pain. We showed many doctors, everything was normal and one day he died suddenly. The sadness of leaving a city and the day my father died, there was another child in my mother’s arms, a brother even younger than my younger brother and he also died that day. Now a woman is so traumatized. But Allah still saved them because my mother knew how to deal with her stress. My elder sister hurt my mother a lot. Encouraged my mom saw the same thing that you don’t make this mistake you don’t show yourself the dark side it’s gone it’s gone what you have think of them my mom what they have If she had thought about those who had left, my mother would not have been alive till now, however, she lived a life of stress. When her husband leaves the world, what is the life of a woman? Ask a widow. I will tell you, time passed and when my brother became a little young, he became crazy. There are many reasons why he became crazy. Some say that he was given mercury. Medicine was given. Some people used to say something and some people used to say something. Allah knows whatever happened, whatever happened, we lost. For some years of his life, he stayed in a mad house, then one day suddenly he too died. Now where is that woman? She was standing, how many sorrows she got in her life, how much she was broken inside. On the day my brother died, on the day my mother had one word, I might die today. After that, she got diabetes. The problem of panic attacks has started, the blood pressure has started increasing, but despite all this today, it has been almost twelve years since my brother passed away, my mother is alive, it is the grace of Allah. Why she didn’t die of anxiety and depression because she knows how to deal with her stress, brother, she knows how to take care of herself. Me and my sister told her the same thing that we can’t go after what is gone. You have them, worry about them. My mom tells me today that when I see your faces, my pain fades away. Now there was a child in all of them, it was me who saw these things from childhood. What was my state of mind? I also had a way to die. How did I save myself? Or if someone dies from anxiety and depression, first of all I die. Brother, understand this. I say the same thing in every video that problems will come in life and depression will come. Stress will come and you should learn to deal with it. There are so many problems in my life that I can’t even tell them. I should disclose my personal things which are very close. I still have such a situation in my life. See, my father was very dear to my sister. My sister left, so my father also left after her. Of course, my daughter was dearer, my husband was also my brother, and my departed brother was also dear to me Even so, my mother took care of herself. It was very difficult. It was very difficult. It was very difficult to do all this and my mother herself used to say that if I had been stable, I would not have this diabetes and I would not have to face panic. I used to talk to my mother often, I used to listen to her, she has become very sensitive, she gets worried about the slightest thing, but still, Alhamdulillah, she has so much courage that she can absorb things and this absorption. I want you guys to learn too, I am going through a difficult phase of my life, the most difficult phase has never come in my life, I am not dead yet, man, I have learned to manage myself is telling him that there is trouble ahead, there is a problem ahead, so read his mind, don’t fight him, don’t say this, he is scaring us, brother, I am not scaring, if I was scared, I would do this in a very good way. My aim is not to scare, if I scare, people would have watched my whole video and I would have gone further, but remember one thing, you can’t succeed by scaring someone. I am trying to show you the direction. If you are not able to see the directions, then it is your fault, not my fault. It doesn’t happen like this. There is no Sweet. There is no Sweet. Then he would put it on a plate and say, “Eat it, brother. People say, tell me one thing. How can you tell me one thing? Tell me two things. How can you do three years of hard work in one minute? You say one minute.” , tell me in a second and tell me now. Brother, change your attitude, change your attitude, you don’t get success in such a life. Only you are successful, otherwise you cannot be successful, the rest belongs to Allah Almighty, He blesses whomever He wants when He wants. No matter how much fear there is, no matter how much phobia there is, no matter how much anxiety there is, no matter how much depression there is, whatever is bothering you, my friend, learn how to manage it. This will continue, sorrows will continue to come, sometimes the sorrow of parents, sometimes the sorrow of someone else, sometimes I don’t want to use words for it, however, sorrows will continue to come, sorrows are a part of life. To recognize the Lord so that he knows that one day he too has to leave this world, but unfortunately man is afraid of it. I am not doing it and it is the same thing if someone tells you that there is going to be an exam and you are afraid of the exam and do not prepare then it is confirmed that you will also fail it depends on the preparation my brother The purpose is not to scare you, my purpose is to shake you up, get ready, if there is an elder in the house, what happens is the elder tells the little child, “Son, don’t do this, don’t do this, if you hold him and sit down.” Baba ji why are you telling me then you will be wrong. The purpose of making this whole video was only that there is no fear, my brother, there is fight, no one dies from ID and depression, but the anxiety you are raising will surely kill you, so learn to manage. This video is being made. Follow it as much as you can. Let’s go with faith. Faith will never let you break down. Inshallah, he will take care of himself a lot. He will remember me in his prayers. See you in another Blog with another topic.
