tolerating the anger of the slightest noise. believe me wait for his anger to cool down because their anger is temporary woman’s anger is permanent and woman’s anger only breaks the house is less broken by man’s anger if woman manage her anger A woman will be the luckiest woman in the world if she learns to do it and finds the hidden love inside a man. I will give you a small example of this. May Allah grant her a high place in Jannat al-Firdous and my shoe, she was the owner of a very cool mind. When my father was angry, my mother would still stand by him with a glass of water to take it and drink it. I used to tell them that I know that you are angry. I saw that my father’s anger used to cool down immediately, but Abu said that I used to say that it’s because of your mother that I don’t even get angry, it changes my anger in a very second. So you are saying don’t get angry come on if they get angry then you will tell them one thing how to manage it how to get rid of the root of it how your daughter can get love out of that anger A man can’t build a house even if he wants to, a dog can’t build a house as long as a woman wants to, she has to break the house, even if a man tries a million, it’s useless, even some effort of a woman can save a broken house, so it’s very important to understand this thing. Today’s parents are making a mistake by coming here. The daughter said the slightest thing and followed her. Parents didn’t even confirm the matter and didn’t even ask their son-in-law. In this way many people are very worried in their life. She also gets angry, she gets more angry. What should we do? When we go home, we start fighting over small things for no reason. They talk about so many small things that they get angry and go away. Then how can you live with such people. How will you live with people. You can never live with such people. Living together is important for a happy life. You must understand that if your partner is angry, how do you manage it? How do you cool down that anger? You have to learn that sometimes if the husband is lying, then the wife is cooperating. You will find this scenario everywhere if both are with each other. If you cooperate, then the relationship will be successful. Anger should be reduced. Those children who are connected with him get it and no one gets a dog, so this is one thing, it is very important. Today, I have seen that if a person is not able to live a happy life, it is because of his wife and husband. There is a lot of suffering and the husband is suffering more than the wife, but if you look at the wife’s sufferings, most of them are the same.What you can solve and if you look at your husband’s sorrow, most of the sorrows are what you can solve. Your life can be very good. Next comes friend management. Your friends play a very important role for you. I even read in a research that people who have friends have less depression. If you change it a little bit, I say that the one who has friends goes into depression if he doesn’t know which friend he has to talk to. Yes, there will be friends in your life who will laugh and joke with you. When you sit with them and share some story of your life, they will say a little to you, “Dude, don’t mess with me.” If it’s not fun, their mind is different. Your mind is different. Some people are happy to listen to you. When you talk to them, they listen to you very seriously. Some friends are happy to abuse you and some are happy to listen to you abuse, so each friend has a different category, you can never make them the same, you will never have a friend who I stand by you in all your sorrows. If anyone, he would be a very lucky person to have such a friend. If you become an enemy, then what will he do with you? Hazrat Ali (R.A.) has said that never tell a friend so much that when he becomes an enemy, he can harm you. I cut off my friend’s hand and put it in front of my friend.Means, trouble is a part of our life, it will come and go, which friend do you want to tell so much trouble? I think it is very important that your circle of friends is strong because all this management is going on, your life cannot be balanced because we are social animals, we have to meet others and attract others. We have to give something to someone. One will get hurt. It is the biggest fact of life that we have to be happy with all these people and walk with them thinking that if someone hurt me, why did they hurt me? No. What could be the reason behind this? It is very important to understand this thing in general in friends. If he does ten bad things, then you start doing fifty bad things to him. Lee and you put it on his face, friendship is very bad and this thing never keeps a person with good friends for long. Talks which makes the next person worry that my friend has said it and it is very important to have this in strong relationships. That if he would have said something, then he would have done it, so what will happen, I am also human, I can do it against him, it is natural, so let him meet others, they can heal you a lot. Thing is office management businessman if you have these things your health is good in your self management your home management is good your friend circle is good but wherever you are very much and If you are spending time and it is fee or business if that thing is not good for you then believe me these three things will also help you to some extent and then it will start going down. Gee, just now I met a very impressive guy. This guy was good at these three things. His self-management was also good. His home management was also good. His wife was very supportive and the other thing was that His circle of friends was also very good. Where was the root of his problem coming from? But the environment there was so dirty, blasphemy, the boy was always insulted if he was late, instead of being insulted, if he was late for any work, he was insulted. It used to be a holiday, you know, every human being has to do it, when you are working, he has to face a lot of disrespect. When he shared these things with his wife, his wife gave him a lot of support, usually if you have even one supportive partner, you go a long way, that’s why. That man worked for five years at a place where a man like me could not spend even ten minutes, so when I heard his whole story, I told him one thing. Leave this job and get a job in another place or start a business. Right now that person is also searching on Arabic business and now his life has started to change a lot. Every time it becomes necessary to come out of this state, it is very important to come out of this situation and there is no solution. If they are, it is better that I told them to leave this place. I also say the same to those people who do not respect you in the place where you are being abused. You should be degraded on the matter, you should be reprimanded for making a mistake. The most important management is your soul. The more this soul will be happy within you, the more happiness it will get. The food of the soul is only remembrance of Allah, not music, it is remembrance of Allah. The more you remember Allah, the more you will remember Allah. Allah will also remember you so much. You see, when will you get the most happiness in the world on the day you worship. You will worship Allah with faith and the day you help others, you have done good to someone, then you will get that peace and this peace is an addiction. It is a habit. So he can’t do bad to anyone even if he wants to, he always thinks of doing good to others. Talking about money, whatever I earn or whatever someone gives me, I put it there, but what I’m getting from it is investment or what I’m getting from it is peace of mind. It seems that by helping someone and only the hungry feel hunger, this thing will bring that happiness in your life. I have seen for myself that the lives of those who help others are prosperous, so happy, so contented, so calm, I can’t tell you, these words are the best for life. One of the important things is that your worship is very important. It is very important that your soul is clean within you. It is very important to clean it. It is cleaned by good deeds. The more you help others, the closer you will be to Allah, the more sincere you will be with yourself, the more you will go inside yourself, the more you will be loved by your soul. You know the soul too. A person is loved whose soul is angry with him. That person cannot do anything even if he wants to. He cannot be happy. Act and will act with this belief, your life will be very prosperous, may Allah make it easy for you, remember me in your prayers, see you in another video with another topic. Peace be upon you, Allah Hafiz.
