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Inferiority Complex By Kamran Sharif
Inferiority Complex By Kamran Sharif

How I Overcame By Kamran Sharif

Bismillah Rahman Al Rahim Assalam Alaikum friends I hope you all are doing well in today’s Blog we will talk about feelings of inferiority complex.  In which we compare ourselves with other people and look at other people. We like someone’s hair.  We feel very good about the style of wearing clothes, and the style of someone’s words looks very good, then after we compare ourselves, we feel inferior to ourselves. This is a very common thing and now a topic  Above I have been asked by various people to make a video and people think that I must have faced this complex or that I have been free from this inferiority complex. It is nothing if I share my life story with you.

My Life Story With Inferiority Complex

There are probably thousands of cases in which I felt a lot of inferiority complex in my life.  I felt less and thousands maybe not even two maybe thousands because you see people who know me who have been on my channel for a long time they can see my videos and they can get a good idea from my old videos.  I used to make videos even in Depression, so the way I see it now, I was never like that from the beginning.  I have become a professional life coach, a mind trainer, a motivational speaker, not that I have come forward without facing all these things, I have seen very hard times, I have seen many difficulties in life and I still  I see, it’s not that I don’t see, every day there is a new challenge in my life and I have understood this challenge now after many difficult times in life.  Don’t feel alone in what people are going through.  At the same time, there are many other people in the world who are seeing or facing all these things and have moved forward. Our biggest tragedy here is that those who have moved forward never tell those behind.  And the people who are facing never tell others this is what happens to most people people will think we are crazy people will make fun even in my channel many people are my acquaintances I meet them daily  Even if there is a meeting, I myself, if you think why I tell my words. So I think more than that, if I don’t tell anyone how much I’ve seen in life, how will this guy get motivation, man, if this guy can do it, why can’t I? That’s my real goal.  It happens to motivate people even these are the things that no one tells us.  When he passed away, the conditions of our house were very bad, thank God, they were not that bad. There was some saving, the time came to do things slowly and after some time, my elder brother was admitted to a mental hospital.  I went crazy because of this I faced many more bad situations then those bad situations kept breaking me with time I was studying in a government school in ninth standard then my mother decided that my sister decided that we had to send him to a good school. I had no study program.  Do time business or do anything like that I jump from these situations.  My family admitted me to a big school in class 9 and the fees were very high, so my mother started working hard.  When you are tired, your hands and feet get swollen, the mindset of a person changes. You can become a life coach as much as you want.  So the situation I was at that time was different, what happened at that time, I was always worried, I was always thinking, I was also in the class, so I was not very active, I had friends, never in my life.  It used to be that no one who was sitting next to me could understand my pain and those who were mature people  Yes, they catch you. I had put a shell on myself that I had to make everyone feel good. Those who were my friends don’t understand that I used to eat from them. I was among those who fed me.  It used to be that I used to make my pocket money by making something small or big

 I used to think that the person sitting next to me should not feel that this person is poor or that something is going on in his life.  He goes through everything and you think of a guy who sits in a big class and when he comes home he has to make bread himself, he has to do all the work himself, he works in his factory.  Where will be the mental state of the person, what will he think about life, when I remember an incident well in the nth class. In 10th class I gave the papers and after that my brother passed away, when my brother passed away this is an incident, so I think that the person who disturbed me a lot in life is you, when my brother passed away, young man.  My brother died, it was a big shock for my brother. When my father died, some people could not come. Our relatives included one of our aunts, who was not in Pakistan at that time.  I used to go to their house, we used to play, we had the same environment with children, our bounding with them was very strong, with this aunt, my mother said that it was a few days later when my brother passed away.  So after a few days that aunty came and my mother said to go and pick them up from the stop.  Since she is here, she saw me and she was very surprised to see that Aunty Ghalib was seeing me after a long time. She was very surprised to see me after a long time.  His way of looking at them was very strange, like we are many people, so I think that Allah has placed in us the ability that our six sense is very sharp, so I like his style of looking at them.  It felt very strange, it felt like if you look at someone with contempt, then their way of looking was also like this. However, despite the great shock, a person came to our house, so there was a slight joy of his coming.  There was also happiness. Those who are over excited tend to go towards happiness and I was happy that aunty came and her daughter who was with aunty, auntie’s daughter who came along used to play with me as a child.  So she came and I brought her, I was carrying auntie’s stuff, so she was talking from behind, so my six sense was saying that she is saying something wrong about me.

  He brought them home, she went inside the house, then mother said, make tea for them, Ata did not do enough housework.  Ai and Ami were at home, so I started making tea for them, I brought biscuits along with making tea, when I brought tea biscuits, that aunty is looking at me, then she aunty says to my mother, sister.  This son of yours seems like a drug addict, but she knew me from childhood and she knew everything about me, and it was such that my tears stopped, I became blank, what are you saying about me? Sister believe it or not this child is taking drugs either he is drinking alcohol or he is doing wrong things my mother said no sister hai he is not like that you can understand what a person must be feeling at that time.  People think that people judge us by our appearance, how are you looking But she did not know how the conditions of these servants were. She had a lot of open money, so her husband also had a lot of property, Alhamdulillah.  They are walking, what was she doing?  smokes cigarettes but they don’t know that in depression your hair falls, in depression your lips turn black, your face becomes crooked, many harms happen to you in depression, what people are seeing is what they say.  made me feel very inferior and I left the tea and biscuits and started crying in the next room. It was a two room house.  used to go and her daughter who was very attached to me as a child was also very withdrawn.  Didn’t talk to him.  But I also felt that man, these people are trying to go too far, so it’s okay, what do I have to do with them?  After doing that, they stayed in our house for two days and I think that their sense did not work enough in these two days that their financial situation is difficult.  She kept thinking that the color of this day is black, why is she crying so much?  So she talked a lot and she left, so I cried a lot, then my mother put her hand on the Qur’an and told me to swear that you are not doing anything wrong.  When I was ready, then I spoke to my mother that she says that I used to ask Allah, so why don’t you ask ALLAH

then why don’t you talk to Allah, you say that you are young.  I  When you became a widow, you gave your life to your children, then you spent time in your worship, so why don’t you ask Allah? I used to say these things to my mother and still do.  I say that you should ask Allah why you are asking me, do Istikhara, you will see that you have spent so much of your life in the way of Allah, then this much is right.  If you believe then Allah also believes in you then I said ask me then mother said she will ask then mother later told me tell me what is your problem then I will never tell my mother this thing.  I can’t tell you what I would tell you, what would you tell a front man? But she did not know how the conditions of these servants were. She had a lot of open money, so her husband also had a lot of property, Alhamdulillah.  They are walking, what was she doing?  Smokes cigarettes but they don’t know that in depression your hair falls, in depression your lips turn black, your face becomes crooked, many harms happen to you in depression, what people are seeing is what they say.  Made me feel very inferior and I left the tea and biscuits and started crying in the next room. It was a two room house.  Used to go and her daughter who was very attached to me as a child was also very withdrawn.  Didn’t talk to him.  But I also felt that man, these people are trying to go too far, so it’s okay, what do I have to do with them?  After doing that, they stayed in our house for two days and I think that their sense did not work enough in these two days that their financial situation is difficult.  She kept thinking that the color of this day is black, why is she crying so much?  So she talked a lot and she left, so I cried a lot, then my mother put her hand on the Qur’an and told me to swear that you are not doing anything wrong.  When I was ready, then I spoke to my mother that she says that I used to ask Allah, so why don’t you ask Allah, then why don’t you talk to Allah, you say that you are young.  I  When you became a widow, you gave your life to your children, then you spent time in your worship, so why don’t you ask Allah? I used to say these things to my mother and still do.  I say that you should ask Allah why you are asking me, do Istikhara, you will see that you have spent so much of your life in the way of Allah, then this much is right.  If you believe then Allah also believes in you then I said ask me then mother said she will ask then mother later told me tell me what is your problem then I will never tell my mother this thing.  I can’t tell you what I would tell you, what would you tell a front man? He is already in depression, what do you make him more depressed man, I understand that a man is already troubled in his home situation, working hard in life, anyway in 2021, last year in September, our cousin had a wedding.  About eleven years after the people gathered there, he and I met, his face showed signs of surprise.  I had to get out.  You understand your weakness, you feel inferior, you are a little less, you are not good, just your view is wrong, this is my view was wrong.  I used to go on stage alone and host the entire program. I had so much confidence that I could talk to any guy.  Alhamdulillah, I looked better than most of my friends, and my dressing sense was also the best, but one thing, by comparing myself, I lowered myself so low that I was afraid that my friend  I thought it was very good. I was very worried. I am a human being. After so many things, now I meet my friends and they are surprised to see me.  A person changes, he just needs to have the skill to change. It’s funny if that person never gets it, he doesn’t even want to bring the essence. I know how hard I’ve worked.  It’s very easy. A person who justifies himself will never become anything. A dog who thinks that what I did was right.  I want to tell five things to all those who are there. These are the five things that I have seen and learned by myself in my life. These five things come.  Your life can change #1 Accept the fact that you are who you are Accept what it was at that time I thought I would be bald in ten years I thought I would have more wrinkles on my face in ten years

 Because I was 18 years old when people often told me it looked like 30 years old, I thought I would be old in the next 10 or 15 years. I thought I will die after 10 years, such thoughts were coming to my face, this was also due to my own mistake, some of my friends also tried their best to destroy me.  This is our prayer. I didn’t accept the truth in my life. I kept running. Being poor is not a crime.  All those were blessings and many blessings. Allah had blessed us with many things, but there came a time when our father passed away and our brother became crazy.  For eight years, I paid for my brother’s hospital and the medication of this child was also given private treatment.  What will be your financial level? You are comparing with this person. If you want to compare, then do it on one level.  Now do it, now I have come to your level, now do the comparison, why don’t you do it now, accept the reality as it is.  Another thing is, don’t compare yourself with anyone else. There is no person in the world who is like you. There can be someone like you. There can be someone like Rashid.  In the world, I can be a person like Imran. In the world, there is a person like Kamran Sharif.  Allah has given you a place, and if you compare it with someone, then every human being is ten percent imperfect, he is at the lowest level, ten percent will be ahead of him, someone will be thirty percent, someone will be forty percent.  Fifty percent will be 70%, some will be 100%, no one will be incomplete. Even among Sufi things, no human being will be 100%, but not every person is perfect.  Coming to the level and comparing with this guy, how do you know that he is better than what you are comparing with, some other things are less and the things you are comparing with are yours.  The same thing is bad and the other things are better for you, so whenever you don’t voice it, it will lead you to inferiority, comparison will never lead you to superiority, inferiority or superiority, both things are bad for a person.  Should stay in the middle 3rd thing mark up this is what I have done in life what is meant by mark up see till you find where you are weak you can never be strong. It is very important for you to know what is my weakness, what is my weakness, work on them and strengthen them, what are my weaknesses.  You can’t be strong until you work on your weaknesses. You can never be strong. What do you compare yourself to? I don’t have good hair, dear, he has lovely hair. What is your weakness? No hair, dear.  Think about it. Your weakness is that your face is not beautiful. Someone’s face is very beautiful. I try my best to beautify the face.  What is as it is is better. Number 4 Be grateful. Be grateful. Look, the more you thank Allah, the better you will be.  If you are thinking that I don’t have balance, then there are many people who don’t have eyes, who don’t have hands, who don’t have t  There will be no numbers. If you are thinking that this man is speaking well of me, there will be many who will not have the tongue yet bring everything as you bring us today in thanksgiving.  If you do, a little will become more of you. Remember, no human being is perfect. No one has 100%.  Allah Ta’ala, who always considers completeness, has created every human being complete,

what is inside him is that he cannot change them even if he wants to. You cannot change the factor of age even if you want to.  Like whatever little or some flaws you have in yourself is good for you, it is with humility, it is with gratitude, it will become 100%, 100%, then you will be happy.  To be happy you need any event to be happy you need money to be happy you need different things and to be happy what you need is just a smile. Finally, one thing that is very important is to make a list of positive things, good things that you think are good things in you. Everyone has good things in them.  Even if you don’t do it, ten things come out. I say, I have kept ten as the minimum number, which can be more.  There is someone who is beautiful. I will do the same. One thing will happen. But you still have ten positive things that are more in you. There are so many positive things in every human being that he leaves all these things and only sees the negative things.  Remember ten positive things on your finger tips, believe me, the mind remembers two things, the mind works on it, it responds to it, now you will think that I don’t even have ten things inside me.  You will believe that your way of seeing is wrong. Number 1: You are a human being. Now you will believe that all humans are not all human beings. All human beings were not created by Allah. Dogs are also animals, birds are also many creatures that exist in water.  Even if Allah Ta’ala had created another creature for you, what would you do? Allah Ta’ala should not speak the word of a dog.  If Allah Ta’ala had created another creature for you, what would you have done? Could you have done something? You could not have done it. Thank you for this.  Thanks be to Allah, there is hair on the head. Some people will have good home conditions.  It is important that these ten things will make you always think well. These ten things and what is remembered inside the mind remains in focus in its canvas. The mind works on a focus.  Whenever you put any object in its focus, it will only see those objects because if you are seeing the negative, then you have a negative object in your focus, you have one thing that is negative to compensate for that one thing.  10. You have to take positive things because there is power in negativity. For example, I give you a lot of importance.  He looks very fat, so how did he come dressed? You will forget the definition of ten. You will remember his keyboard, but to replace this evil, you will have to remember the definition of ten again.  But if you don’t remember it, then you will remember the negative thing again and again. It is better than remembering again and again that you leave this bad thing and put good things in yourself and finger tips cry like I have ten good things in me, there may be ten thousand.  Has instilled in me.Thanks to God, God’s mercy, God’s favor.  Look, everyone’s ID card number is different, his ID card number is different, so Allah has kept everything separate.  Let me tell you one thing, you know ten percent of your personality like you think I’m good-looking, so you know seven out of ten percent of how good you think you are when people interact with each other.  You look 10% better today, but if you ever think that I’m not looking that good, people will tell you how good you look. People want to see you.  It is separate and the way of looking at yourself is wrong. You look at your weaknesses and people see your strength. How strong are you? Whoever thinks that they have inferiority complex, my brother, you are my brother.  I was more than the reward of hard work on myself. By working hard on yourself, a person changes everything.  A person who has the spirit that he will succeed is not a person who is wise, intelligent, has the passion to do something, he is a person who makes an effort and after that effort makes that effort continuously, does it again and again.  I fell, then picked up, fell, then picked up, fell, then picked up, that’s what succeeds.  I have not become like this, I have also seen very difficult times in my life, the only condition is that if I keep telling, most people will think that this is what you are talking about.  That what I have seen I want to share with the world so that more people can learn from it and these things seem easier when you are fighting and you know that someone else is also fighting.  It becomes easier, the person feels a little better, that’s why I make a video that because of me, maybe someone’s thinking will change or because of me, someone’s view of life might change.  I will remember it. See you in another video with another topic. Assalam Alaikum Allah Hafiz

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